25+ Femdom Role Playing Scenarios To Bring Out Your Inner Dominatrix

By Mia Flores – Jan 12, 2024

1) What Is Femdom?

A fetish that has been rising in popularity in recent years is femdom, short for female domination. This fetish includes a vulva owner dominating another partner through verbal humiliation, impact play, dominance and so much more.

A couple of terms describing the dominant are Mistress, Madame, Domme (female version of Dom), or Dominatrix. Professional dominatrixes report that the number one reason why men like to partake in this kink is to give up control and escape their stressful life.

2) Punishment Ideas For Your Femdom Roleplay

Bondage: Tying them to a bed, chair, or other furniture.
Humiliation: Either verbally humiliate them through insult or force them to do pointless tasks like balancing coins on every finger just to punish them upon failure.
Forced orgasms: This is especially painful shortly after they had their first orgasm due to a sensitive penis.
Facesitting: Force them into eating you out.
Impact play: Toys, such as floggers, paddles, and canes will come in handy.
Strap on: To penetrate them with.
Glass or metal dildo: Glas and metal can be very cold and therefore great as punishments.
Anal training: Try fitting larger and larger dildos.
Temperature play: Either drip wax on them or rub ice cubes over sensitive body parts.
Worship mistress feet: Let them wash, lick, or kiss your feet.
Praise mistress: Demand them to praise you in every way possible.
Cock ring: Have them wear a cock ring so they won’t get soft.
Vibrating sex toys: To stimulate their prostate or penis. Try using remote-controlled sex toys for even more control.
Cock cage: So they can’t get hard.
Orgasm control or denial: Edge them before you let them cum or forbid them to cum at all.
Choking: Either use your hands for this or use a gag ball.
Pet collar: Make your submissive wear a collar to which you could attach a leash.
Nipple clamps: You could even add some weight to them.
Stand against a wall: As a punishment force them to be quiet and stand facing a wall or corner.
Wartenberg pinwheel: Use this one on their skin.

3) How To Be A Confident Dominatrix

Talk about their limits and no-gos before femdom role playing. I recommend writing them down together and discussing them in detail. For example, talk about what impact toys you are allowed to use, on which body parts, and how hard.
Use the traffic light system for effective communication. Saying “green” means “all good”, “yellow” means “back up a bit, you are approaching my limits”, while “red” terminates the femdom roleplay immediately.
Memorize their limits and respect these during the femdom scenario.
Always make sure you have consent before engaging in femdom roleplay.
Engage in aftercare: When your scenario ends, talk about what felt great and what aspects need to be improved. Cuddling, taking a warm bath together, or watching a movie are great ways to transition from the fetish mindset back to reality.
Constantly read their body language to make sure you are not emotionally or physically harming them. If you are ever unable to interpret their body language, ask them. This will probably happen a couple of times with a new partner and is completely normal. Better safe than sorry, right?
Speak in a dominant, loud, and assertive voice.
Pay attention to your posture: Make yourself tall with your back straight.
Use words to humiliate and assert dominance.
Have a couple of tools, such as dildos, impact toys, bondage rope, or anal vibrators, and know how to use them.
Constantly learn – either through gathering experience or by searching the internet or bookstore for information
Prepare beforehand: Clean, disinfect, or charge your toys, have safety scissors at hand when engaging in bondage, etc.
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4) Correct Clothing For Dominatrix Role Playing

Wearing appropriate clothes will make your femdom roleplay so much sexier, trust me.
1) One option is to go all in. Wear a latex catsuit with latex thigh-high boots.
2) Another great option is wearing a corset with stockings and heels.
Typical colors to go for when buying your catsuit, lingerie or heels are black and red.

5) Establish Ground Rules

To assert dominance from the beginning, set up some ground rules before your first dominatrix role play.

The dominatrix must only be called by the chosen name. Some great examples are queen, mistress, goddess, lady, princess, owner, highness, and empress.
The submissive gets their own nickname. You could use idiot, plaything, manwhore, or sub.
Never question the mistress: Whatever request the mistress has must be followed without question.
Every punishment is just: Never question whether a punishment is justified or not.
Ask for permission: The submissive must ask permission to masturbate, change position, pee, etc.
Orgasm denial: The mistress alone decides when and whether the submissive is allowed to cum.
Mistress has to be worshipped and thanked: The mistress is to be thanked for every punishment and order. Her time is valuable and the submissive must acknowledge her making time for them.
Good attitude: Show your thankfulness through a positive and attentive attitude.
Serve your mistress: If your mistress requires anything, the submissive’s job is to fulfill their needs.

6) Femdom Roleplay Ideas

We hope you find some inspiration in the following femdom roleplay scenarios. Although we suggest some suitable punishments, we encourage you to incorporate any punishments you both are comfortable with.

Thief and dominant homeowner

When sneaking into a rich women’s house, the thief is caught in the act. While trying to open the safe, the lights go on, and he sees the rich woman pointing a gun at him.

He begs her to let him go, but she throws him handcuffs to cuff his own hands behind his back. He watches her sit down on the sofa and spread her legs. Then she demands him to eat her out and make her orgasm. Only