25+ Femdom Role Playing Scenarios To Bring Out Your Inner Dominatrix

By Mia Flores – Jan 12, 2024

Dominant woman in black latex suit doing femdom
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1) What Is Femdom?

A fetish that has been rising in popularity in recent years is femdom, short for female domination. This fetish includes a vulva owner dominating another partner through verbal humiliation, impact play, dominance and so much more. 

A couple of terms describing the dominant are Mistress, Madame, Domme (female version of Dom), or Dominatrix. Professional dominatrixes report that the number one reason why men like to partake in this kink is to give up control and escape their stressful life.

2) Punishment Ideas For Your Femdom Roleplay

  • Bondage: Tying them to a bed, chair, or other furniture.
  • Humiliation: Either verbally humiliate them through insult or force them to do pointless tasks like balancing coins on every finger just to punish them upon failure.
  • Forced orgasms: This is especially painful shortly after they had their first orgasm due to a sensitive penis.
  • Facesitting: Force them into eating you out.
  • Impact play: Toys, such as¬†floggers,¬†paddles, and¬†canes¬†will come in handy.
  • Strap on: To penetrate them with.
  • Glass¬†or¬†metal dildo: Glas and metal can be very cold and therefore great as punishments.
  • Anal training: Try fitting larger and larger¬†dildos.
  • Temperature play: Either drip¬†wax¬†on them or rub ice cubes over sensitive body parts.
  • Worship mistress feet: Let them wash, lick, or kiss your feet.
  • Praise mistress: Demand them to praise you in every way possible.
  • Cock ring: Have them wear a¬†cock ring¬†so they won’t get soft.
  • Vibrating sex toys: To stimulate their prostate or penis. Try using remote-controlled¬†sex toys¬†for even more control.¬†¬†
  • Cock cage: So they can’t get hard.
  • Orgasm control or denial: Edge them before you let them cum or forbid them to cum at all.¬†
  • Choking: Either use your hands for this or use a gag ball.¬†
  • Pet collar: Make your submissive wear a¬†collar¬†to which you could attach a leash.¬†
  • Nipple clamps: You could even add some weight to them.¬†
  • Stand against a wall: As a punishment force them to be quiet and stand facing a wall or corner.¬†
  • Wartenberg pinwheel: Use this one on their skin.¬†

3) How To Be A Confident Dominatrix

  • Talk about their limits and no-gos before femdom role playing. I recommend writing them down together and discussing them in detail. For example, talk about what impact toys you are allowed to use, on which body parts, and how hard. 
  • Use the traffic light system for effective communication. Saying “green” means “all good”, “yellow” means “back up a bit, you are approaching my limits”, while “red” terminates the femdom roleplay immediately.
  • Memorize their limits and respect these during the femdom scenario.
  • Always make sure you have consent before engaging in femdom roleplay. 
  • Engage in aftercare: When your scenario ends, talk about what felt great and what aspects need to be improved. Cuddling, taking a warm bath together, or watching a movie are great ways to transition from the fetish mindset back to reality. 
  • Constantly read their body language to make sure you are not emotionally or physically harming them. If you are ever unable to interpret their body language, ask them. This will probably happen a couple of times with a new partner and is completely normal. Better safe than sorry, right? 
  • Speak in a dominant, loud, and assertive voice.
  • Pay attention to your posture: Make yourself tall with your back straight.
  • Use words to humiliate and assert dominance. 
  • Have a couple of tools, such as dildos, impact toys, bondage rope, or anal vibrators, and know how to use them. 
  • Constantly learn – either through gathering experience or by searching the internet or bookstore for information
  • Prepare beforehand: Clean, disinfect, or charge your toys, have safety scissors at hand when engaging in bondage, etc. 
  • Wearing dominant clothing (details below)

4) Correct Clothing For Dominatrix Role Playing

Wearing appropriate clothes will make your femdom roleplay so much sexier, trust me.
1) One option is to go all in. Wear a latex catsuit with latex thigh-high boots.
2) Another great option is wearing a corset with stockings and heels.
Typical colors to go for when buying your catsuit, lingerie or heels are black and red.

5) Establish Ground Rules

To assert dominance from the beginning, set up some ground rules before your first dominatrix role play. 

  • The dominatrix must only be called by the chosen name. Some great examples are queen, mistress, goddess, lady, princess, owner, highness, and empress.¬†
  • The submissive gets their own nickname. You could use idiot, plaything, manwhore, or sub.
  • Never question the mistress: Whatever request the mistress has must be followed without question.
  • Every punishment is just: Never question whether a punishment is justified or not.¬†
  • Ask for permission: The submissive must ask permission to masturbate, change position, pee, etc.¬†
  • Orgasm denial: The mistress alone decides when and whether the submissive is allowed to cum.¬†
  • Mistress has to be worshipped and thanked: The mistress is to be thanked for every punishment and order. Her time is valuable and the submissive must acknowledge her making time for them.¬†
  • Good attitude: Show your thankfulness through a positive and attentive attitude.¬†
  • Serve your mistress: If your mistress requires anything, the submissive’s job is to fulfill their needs.

6) Femdom Roleplay Ideas

We hope you find some inspiration in the following femdom roleplay scenarios. Although we suggest some suitable punishments, we encourage you to incorporate any punishments you both are comfortable with.

Dominatrix holding a black flogger

Thief and dominant homeowner

When sneaking into a rich women’s house, the thief is caught in the act. While trying to open the safe, the lights go on, and he sees the rich woman pointing a gun at him.¬†

He begs her to let him go, but she throws him handcuffs to cuff his own hands behind his back. He watches her sit down on the sofa and spread her legs. Then she demands him to eat her out and make her orgasm. Only then may he leave. 

Wear this: Dressed in black (thief), nightgown with no underwear (homeowner)

Accessories: Handcuffs

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The uncaring partner

The husband has not been giving his wife enough attention. When she confronts him about being distant at dinner he denies everything and tries to avoid an argument. 

Furiously she stands up, walks across the table, and grabs her husband by the hair. She drags him into the bedroom, ties him to the bed, and punishes him. To make up for his unattentiveness, she sits on his face and uses his tongue to her pleasure. 

Accessories: Bondage rope, food 

Witch and prisoner

On her way home from the local market the witch eyes a handsome human. Flirtingly she goes up to him and tries to seductively lure him into her house, but he doesn’t catch on.¬†

So she decides to bewitch him and makes him follow her every wish. After a quick spell, he follows her every order with pleasure and a submissive “yes mistress.”¬†

Wear this: Witch lingerie or devil lingerie 

Hot teacher

After the bell rings the naughty student is ordered to the front desk. She threatens him with a bad grade if he does not make it up to her, while seductively opening her legs and revealing her pussy. 

She takes his head and pushes it between her legs not letting him breathe for a while. Either the dominant lets the submissive pleasure them or punishes them for bad behavior. 

Wear this: Tight office skirt with no underwear

Accessories: Flogger, cane, paddle

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Human plate

While the dominant is watching a movie the submissive acts as a naked human plate. Either they lie over their legs or are positioned on all fours. Order sushi and position it on their back to eat off with chopsticks. To avoid injuries, do not use food you might have to cut on their back. 

In the meantime, they must stay still and quiet. When finished either let them eat (give you head in this case) or spank them if they did a terrible job. 

Accessories: Movie, sushi

Boarding school

The female headmaster does her usual Sunday inspection of the student’s houses. When entering a boy’s dormitories she catches a senior masturbating.¬†

She threatens to humiliate him during assembly if he does not agree to her proposed punishment: verbal humiliation and impact play. 

Wear this: Strict office outfit (headmaster)

Striptease gone wrong

A client pays for a striptease in a private room but gets handsy while grinded on. After asking him multiple times to refrain from touching her, she decides to punish him. 

She seductively takes off his shirt and handcuffs his hands behind his back. After slowly removing her clothes she slips into a catsuit. 

Then, to make him apologize she uses hot wax and the wartenberg pinwheel to inflict pain. 

Wear this: Lingerie & BDSM outfit & high-heels (stripper), suit (customer)

Accessories: Handcuffs, safe wax candle, wartenberg pinwheel

Hired dominatrix

In this femdom roleplay, the client has an appointment with a professional dominatrix. Upon arrival, he immediately hands over the money after which his session starts. 

He is ordered to get on all fours and follow her to her room. Anal training, impact play, orgasm denial, or wearing a cock cage are only a couple of things the dominatrix could do. 

Wear this: Dominatrix lingerie or corset & high heels (dominatrix) 

Accessories: Different size dildos for anal training, floggers, canes, paddle, cock cage

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