15+ Bondage Roleplay Ideas To Get Out Your Ropes And Handcuffs For

By Massimo Jenkins – Dez 4, 2022

Women participating in bondage roleplay
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Trigger Warning: consensual punishment, bondage, kink, fetish

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1) What is bondage roleplay?

Alone the fact that the B in BDSM stands for Bondage should indicate that Bondage is quite a big deal. When practicing bondage another partner is consensually tied or restrained for different purposes. Although sexual and erotic pleasure is not the only purpose bondage has, it is the one I will cover here. 

A sub-category is bondage roleplay, which gives the restrictions a purpose and story. Your partner is not tied up for the sake of it, but because they are interrogated and must give up spice information (just one example of many). 

2) Why is bondage roleplay sexy?

In Bondage the submissive is the one being tied up, while the dominant controls the restrictions. There are a couple of reasons why bondage may be a turn-on for both of them. 

Very often the power exchange in itself is the reason why both find pleasure. Many submissives enjoy the feeling of not being able to move when being tied up. Some might also find pleasure in the skin being in contact with ropes or leather. The dominant often finds visual pleasure in seeing the submissive naked and tied up.

3) Stay safe during bondage role play

Engaging in bondage roleplay must always be consensual and discussed beforehand. Talk about your limits and pleasures and agree on using a safeword or the traffic light system (green means all good; yellow means slow down I am approaching my limits; red means stop immediately). 

Always have safety scissors close by, so that you can cut through ropes safely and quickly in case of emergency. 

Another vital rule is to never leave a restricted person alone. To avoid problems with blood circulation do not have a person tied up for too long. 

Additionally check their body parts, especially feet and hands, for numbness, cold temperature, or change of skin color. In case any of those three symptoms emerge, remove the restraints immediately.

4) Accessories to use for your bondage scenarios

  • Ropes: There are many different materials to use, such as¬†nylon,¬†cotton,¬†jute, or¬†hemp¬†(in my opinion the best).¬†
  • Handcuffs: Make sure to use¬†padded handcuffs¬†or those made from¬†leather¬†to avoid pain on the wrists.¬†
  • Wrist and thigh cuffs: This is usually a set of two. They cuff your wrist and things together and are great for doggy.¬†
  • Spreader bar: Spreads your legs or hands.¬†
  • Under-the-mattress bed restraints: These help tie hands and feet to each corner of the bed.
  • Bondage tape: Alternative to rope and great for tying hands together.¬†
  • Blindfolds: Many submissives love blindfolds because not being able to see forces them to focus more on their body and senses.¬†
  • Quality: Especially for BDSM toys investing in quality toys is a long-term investment in your sex life. High-quality restraints feel so much better on the skin.¬†

5) Different ways to restrict your partner

There are a couple of ways you can restrict your partner. 

  • Tie body parts together: Both arms, both legs, legs to arms, and arms behind their back.
  • Tying them to another object, such as a chair, the bed, or a couch.
  • Spreading out their legs and arms on a bed or Andreas Kreuz.

6) Bondage scenarios

Now that you have your equipment set it is time to incorporate your bondage roleplay. So you do not have to come up with your own, I have listed a couple of great bondage roleplay ideas for you to try.

Body art

Tie your partner to each corner of the bed and create some amazing art with wax candles. Drop the wax from a safe distance onto their skin. 

Use different colors of wax to create beautiful body art. You could give them oral in between without letting them cum if you want to tease them. 

Accessories: Safe wax candles

Achilles meets Briseis

Reenact this scene from the movie Troy. She plays Briseis, tied to a chair or bedpost, while Achilles undresses in front of her and washes himself. Achilles could wash her face before stealing a kiss from her. 

Wear this: Gladiator costume, priestess costume

Accessories: Sponge, bondage rope

International women's day

Ideally, you play this one on the 8th of March, the actual date. Because it’s international women’s day she gets to do whatever she wants with you. She may start by tying you to the bed to gain complete control over you.¬†

Accessories: Bondage rope

Interrogation

The dominant partner interrogates the submissive who is tied naked to a chair. The submissive knows the name of the city where a famous hostage is being held in. Use orgasm denial, nipple clamps, wax play, and the wartenberg pinwheel to force out that information. 

Wear this: Suit (dominant)

Accessories: Bondage rope, nipple clamps, candle wax, wartenberg pinwheel, blindfold

Doctor and difficult patient

A difficult patient cannot be examined because they won’t hold still. The doctor decides to restrain them to the bed and proceeds with the examination of their vulva/ penis/ back door.¬†

Appropriate ways to examine the patient could be oral, fingering, a handjob, or anal training. 

Wear this: Doctor costume, nurse costume

Accessories: Bondage rope, examination gloves, anal dildos

Step-aunt and nephew

When her nephew is not getting better after weeks of taking care of him, she concludes that the adrenaline from sex will be their last hope. 

She ties him to the bed, teases and edges him multiple times until she lets him cum. But remember the more you tease him the more adrenaline he will produce. 

Accessories: Rope

Untie yourself

In this scenario, the dom gets to tie his submissive with both hands to the bed. Do not make the restraints too complicated, and give her a chance to untie herself. 

Dominate her and have passionate sex. Meanwhile, she will try to untie her hands. If she succeeds, she gets to switch and dominate you throughout the rest of the scenario. 

Accessories: Bondage rope

Naked painting

An artist uses a naked model for body painting, but the model constantly moves and complicates their work. At some point, the artist is so frustrated that they tie the model’s hands and feet to each corner of the bed.¬†

This position is perfect for teasing, either through light touches or with a vibrator. 

Accessories: Bondage rope, under-the-mattress bed restraints, safe body paint, vibrator

Judge and criminal

The criminal will stand trial in a couple of days and was able to find his judge’s address. He drives to her house and discovers that she is home. Begging her to let him in, she finally opens the door.¬†

Realizing she is sexually eying him, he decides not to bribe her with money but with sex. But she only agrees to his bribe under one condition … she gets to punish him physically (BDSM) to ensure his deed does not go unpunished.¬†

Wear this: Judge costume, bad boy style (criminal)

Accessories: Rope, flogger, cane or paddle 

Assassin and victim

While the victim peacefully cooks in the kitchen, the assassin sneaks up on the victim from behind and restraints them. The partner playing the victim struggles against the assassin until fully restrained with a rope. 

The assassin was sent to kill them but would spare them in exchange for sex. 

Wear this: Naked & only wearing a kitchen apron (victim)

Accessories: Bondage rope or duct tape

Warden and prisoner

The prisoner is sick of the terrible prison food and tries to seduce a warden into getting them fast food. The warden agrees to do so but demands sex as payment. 

Because the warden is concerned the prisoner might try to escape during sex, he ties the prisoner up and then uses them for their pleasure. 

Wear this: prisoner costume, warden uniform 

Accessories: Rope, handcuffs

A wrestling match

You are having a wrestling match, where the loser has to fulfill all of the winner’s sexual desires.¬†

Before starting, decide together who will win the match. Prepare your bed for the match by adding cushions against the walls and bedposts to avoid injury. 

Playfully wrestle, constantly changing who is on top and who is on the bottom. Do not use all of your strength and let the weaker person dominate as well. In the end, the winner pins down the looser and ties them to the bed. 

Wear this: Wrestle in underwear

Accessories: Bondage rope 

Alien explorer

The alien surprises you in your home and ties you to your bed. They have come to discover human pain tolerance and sexual responses. The alien could spank, flog, cane, or whip their victim to investigate their pain tolerance. 

Alternatively, they might use a Wartenberg pinwheel on their victim’s nipples. To explore their sexual responses they might massage, finger, or lick them.¬†

Wear this: 70s clothes (aliens), joggers or underwear when being surprised and caught (victim)

Accessories: Flogger, cane or paddle, wartenberg pinwheel. 

Vampire desire

During their first date, the stranger suddenly grabs her and ties her to her bed. He reveals his true identity as a bloodthirsty vampire and his quest for human blood. 

She begs for mercy but it only gets worse – the vampire wants to torture her to increase the blood’s taste. Wax play, orgasm denial, impact play, or the wartenberg pinwheel are great ways to punish your submissive.¬†

At some point, the vampire declares the punishment to be over and her blood ready. Instead of actually biting them, give them a hickey. 

Wear this: Vampire costume

Accessories: Safe wax candles, flogger, cane or paddle, wartenberg pinwheel. 

Forced marriage

You two have been chosen for each other and forced into marriage with little to no sex. After yet another argument the dominant has enough. 

They take the submissive and tie them to the bed. First, they punish them for their uncooperative behavior, then they sexually tease them until they beg for sex. 

Accessories: Bondage rope, flogger

Drug dealer and addict

The drug addict is short on pills and desperately needs new supply. Broke and already in debt, they knock on their dealer’s door. The door opens and both step inside to conduct their usual business, or so the dealer thought.¬†

Suddenly the addict grabs the dealer and ties them to their bed, demanding to know where their stash is. Because the dealer refuses to tell them, the addict starts caning them to reveal the information. Remember to give up the information at the end of the role play. 

Accessories: Cane, fake drugs 

Step-mom teaches a lesson

When the step-mom learns that her step-son has been playing girls in college she decides to teach him a valuable lesson. After classes, she goes into his room and locks the door. A long monologue follows about how gentlemen don’t behave like this, but he ignores her. 

So she decides to tame him as she does with his father, through punishment. With his hands tied, she hits him with a flogger and makes him promise to never play with another girl again.

Accessories: Bondage ropeflogger

Other bondage roleplay ideas

We have created even more scenarios but thought they would fit better on a different page. Click the links below to check out our additional scenarios that also include bondage:

Reporter and dirty cop 
Torture for espionage 
BDSM toy tester
Illegal experiment 
Robbery gone sexual 
Knight and princess 
FBI and alien

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